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What Happens in Lagos Stays in Lagos: Life After Detty December

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The Detty December season has concluded, days after planning, strategizing, and the announcement of the biggest season in Lagos and across other parts of Nigeria has been put on a shelf. Everyone has resumed their respective duties, and the I Just Got Back (IJGB) merchants have returned to the various countries from which they came. They've attended concerts organized by some of Nigeria's major entertainers, gone to the beach in Lagos State, and have been able to reconnect with long-lost friends and family members. Since the turn of the 2020s, the Detty December celebration officially gained prominence, becoming one of the most voraciously anticipated periods of the year. The season prompted several Nigerians to return home for the holidays and enjoy some of the country's finest offerings, from nightlife to musical events and other cultural activities that can only be found in the most populous black nation in the world.  The puffy face of Detty December A lot of Nigerian...

THE UPRISING PLATFORM: OBJECTIVE AND DOCUMENTATION

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  OBJECTIVE OF THE UPRISING PLATFORM The Uprising Platform (PHOTO CREDIT: Mr Femi Ojo) Originally, the Uprising Platform commenced as an Instagram platform in 2021; however, the project was put on hold due to several professional reasons. In March 2025, the blog site, Uprisingplatform.blogspot.com, was established due to the incessant creation of ideas that required promotion, attention, and earnest documentation; the channel was created to serve that purpose. The objective of the Uprising Platform is predominantly to document the emergence of talents from across the globe, Nigeria, and the rest of the world. The platform isn’t interested in reporting or sharing news information about mainstream personalities; instead, it is focused on building a worthwhile brand around burgeoning individuals across specific fields such as Entertainment, fashion (styling and profiling), and pop culture. The aim and objective of The Uprising Platform is to amplify the voices of those who have a ...

Japa story: Understanding Why Nigerian Men Prefer Women Back Home to Those Abroad

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  Japa is a common theme amongst Nigerians both at home and abroad; everyone talks about it. Young Nigerians with a troubled heart aspire to 'Japa' and live the life they’ve always dreamed of. They want to escape the heinous rulership of Nigerian leaders and find a more prosperous environment where they can thrive and create a life worthwhile for themselves and possibly for their family members. Listening to other people’s Japa story is usually quite humorous to me. There are days you laugh at someone else’s story, and other times, you’re the laughing stock. Japa Story: Understanding Why Nigerian Men Prefer Women Back Home to Those Abroad In this moment, though, I got to understand a narrative broader than a mere Japa story. I understood why men prefer to deal with their Nigerian counterparts rather than those with whom they reside or come across in Europe or North America. I’m in no position to judge people’s decision to take a life partner or whom to marry; however, I m...

Tribalism: Understanding The Importance of Your Fellow Countrymen

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  The thing about tribalism is that it eats deep into our system. Tribalism is the proverbial insect in the vegetable, instigating mental and emotional ailments. Tribalism is unhealthy to both the plant and the consumer. Tribalism hinders progress and fails to propel a society, continent, or nation toward unity, conviviality, and development. Tribalism serves little to no purpose; it doesn’t propel national development, nor does it bring about any form of meaningful existence to the lives of those who practice it. Multiculturalism is designed to beautify and promote unity in our communities; tribalism breeds resentment and division- where there is separation, progress is disregarded and abandoned without achieving any worthwhile results. The Rock Tribalism makes life difficult and makes it impossible to dwell peacefully in a community as friends, family, acquaintances, and fellow countrymen. Our language and ethnicity might suffer; however, we are of similar genealogy, race, and ...

Japa: The sexiest thing about travelling abroad

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  When you travel abroad, you realise that it is possible to have a 24/7 power supply, and there is something called a ‘ zebra crossing ’. There is orderliness in the society, and these petty things are sexy, not in the form of coitus or sensually, but I mean it arouses the strand of hair on your skin, this is sexy, fam! Now that you are here, I would like to extend my congratulations to you. You have made it abroad; I welcome you to the new phase of your life. You’re overseas, welcome to Amsterdam , Berlin, London, Helsinki, or wherever you migrate to. You have prayed for this moment, talked to God about your desires to fly to Bakersfield and watch the rooftops of beautiful cities, escape from the heinous and nefarious ideologies you have known the entirety of your life- you are here now, big sexy. Bola Ahmed Tinubu chilling in France (Photo Credit: X) Before your departure at Muritala Muhammadu Airport , you didn’t know what to expect; you just took faith in the new phase, yo...

The Black Man: Eventually, God won’t save us…

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  The day God saves us, the black people of the world won’t come. The day God will collect our respective nation from money grubbing, corrupt, selfish charlatans is not coming anytime soon, the cruel and evil persons who have no strategy nor plan for the betterment of their fellow black person wouldn’t suddenly happen, it’ll be a fight; a battle would break out and eventually the bushmeat would have to overcome the hunter. Eventually, the black man would realize that God wouldn’t come down to save us from people who have similar skin complexions and complexities like us; God has given us (the black people) all that we need and have ever desired. Nigerian footballer, Anozie He has blessed us with human power, natural resources, impeccable weather, and seasons; unfortunately, the leaders are too myopic to understand the essence of leadership and the ability to create a society where progress and development can compound and evolve for the next generation. God has done everythin...

The love story of Adeni Brown

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One of the happiest moments of my life is watching a lady receive the treatment she deserves. Meeting with a man who would give her everything that she has always desired and admired, this is to Adeni Brown- the lady with the brown colored pristine eyes, if beauty were a person, she embodied it. Back at 17, she had a baby on the way, heck, a set of twins. The 19-year-old boy who impregnated her, of course, wasn’t ready at the time, hence, she had to go through the phase herself. When I first met her, she was 25, while I was 21 going to 22, it was almost 2 weeks to my birthday in August and she swept me off my feet with the gift she acquired for me- cake, Van cleef wrist chain and the heaviness that comes with the night sessions; I mean, it was worth every moment. Her vivacious brown eyes served as my antidepressant. Each morning when we wake, we spread cakes as our backs ache. All was great until one day she mentioned she wanted to ‘get married’. I kn...

Life As Fjizzle: Me Against Me

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  Every single day when I wake up, I give thanks to the Lord for the gift of a new day before staring at myself in the mirror and reminding myself that “ I am not where I want to be yet .” Be thankful, be graceful, but never forget that there is a light that we are in pursuit of, constantly. The battle between here and there is taking forever, and I hope I’m not simply meandering with the times. I hope I am doing all that I can, living truly and thoroughly through my potential, or I’m coasting through my existence. I hope I am becoming everything that God has designed me to be. I do not understand the struggle of each day, but it’s in my place to create a sense of purpose, belonging to an establishment, or creating one- it’s me against me. Every day, all day, the battle is within me. Adekunle Sunday-Fajana That’s just life; there’ll always be a war within myself. The feud for what’s wrong and what’s right, the resentment that comes from indecision, the anxiety that comes with v...

Life As Fjizzle: The Strip Club Experience/The Darkness Of The Shadow World

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  I grew up in church and attended a Christian private institution, albeit the sins of this world outweigh the sanctimoniousness that the ideology of the religion confines us to be. Religion is quintessential in upbringing- indeed, there is a God in heaven, however, there are voluptuous women on earth and marijuana that wants to take you out of the shackles of your spirit, soul, and body. There’s a thin line between sin and happiness. To be happy, you’ll have to lose some form of righteousness; you have to embrace the darkness in your heart and lock into the lightest or darkest(depending on who you ask) moments that the world has to offer. Sometimes, the messages from the pulpit get boring. You need to drift off a little—complications here and a bit of self-destruction there—to make you feel like you’re living a purposeful life. I was only a burgeoning teenager at the time; what did I know? Let loose, let go, and let those kinky, unclad women run their fingers through your sk...