The Kind of Woman You Don’t Want to Be, According to Sod£x

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The Kind of Woman You Don’t Want to Be (Written by Sod£x Garden)

When you manage to be a successful woman who is not ugly and still be alone, this is a strong indication that you’re extraordinarily hard to deal with. 

Most of these types of women are so annoying that men won’t even stick around long enough to get into their pants, and that’s pretty bad, right? 

There are many unruly women. There’s an increasingly high number of unruly women. They behave like animals. No one wants them. They’ll tell you things like “I am celibate and independent”. When a woman tells you she’s independent, it is not a representation of strength. It is using a euphemism to describe their unfortunate state, which is the state of being lonely and unwanted. 

Human beings are social animals. We live in tribes; we need communities. I find it funny when modern women say things like “I choose to be single by choice” or “I’m trying to find myself”. 

These are all comforting lies that this type of women tell themselves just to make themselves feel good. There's no such thing as a woman being single by choice. It's either the guy that they want doesn't want back, or she hasn't found that man yet, as a result of her higher standards and unrealistic expectations from a man. 

Women ideally always want to be in a relationship with a man whom they respect and they admire.

Being single as a woman when you are of age for a relationship effectively means that you're useless a lot of times, if I must be honest. The sad truth is, a man actually needs to know what a woman wants to attract her. A man must attract a woman through certain things that he does, either verbally or non-verbally. 

Women, on the other hand, don’t really know what it takes to keep a man, a lot of times, if I must be honest, especially in this modern age. A lot of ladies can attract the guy, but can you keep him? Most women want a long-term relationship, so if the driving force of the woman is to lock down a man in a

long-term relationship if she’s both good-looking and over the age of 25, it would indicate that what she was pursuing, no man would give it to her, no man would say you know what, you’re the one I want to stay with you.

My advice to most younger women is to always get the best man that they can while they’re at their peak, cause the things that the type of men that you want value is your youth, femininity, and beauty. And these things can only happen when you’re still very young. Women don't reach their peak in their 30's, men do. Women reach their peak between the ages of 18 and 25. A woman in her 30's, the occurrence of Down syndrome and other birth defects increases significantly at age 28, actually. 

Your eggs start to go off, you start to get wrinkles in certain places that you didn’t have before, and it’s not as attractive as you were at 10 years. You start to drop off precipitously, menopause starts to kick in, and then you have had sex with more guys and more relationships with guys. These things kind of drag into your personality, and your worldview is messed up. 

You lose your novelty when it comes to men, you become more aggressive and non-agreeable too, which makes you unattractive to a lot of men. As a woman, you need to realize that there’s an inverse correlation between a woman’s value and her age when it comes to sexual market value, and whether you accept it or not, a woman’s sexual value is her predominant value, and every other thing follows. What this simply means is that men will always be attracted to your looks and beauty at first, even before getting to know you better. Of course, your character and other values come in later, which are also determinants if the man is going to keep you for a long-term relationship or not.

You don’t want to be the woman who argues every time with a man cause men don’t find that attractive. It is better to be single than to go into a relationship with a man that you don’t respect. Some men will play the long game with you just to put you in the sex zone category only. They will not give you the long-term relationship you want, and by the time you realize that, it might be too late. 

Once they’re done with you, they just leave covertly and move on to the next person without you even noticing. This is why it is very important for a woman also to use her critical thinking skills to detect if the man is a leader. And ask yourself these questions: Do I respect him enough to lead me in a relationship? I’m I willing and ready to follow his lead? 

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Is he competent enough even in some other areas in life? Does he have experience? Does he have a future? 

Is he ambitious? 

I think if most women do this self-reflection, it would be a little easier for them to get it right in dating and relationships in general.

I think most women have a very difficult time doing self-assessment and also lack critical thinking skills to see what their flaws are, because reality doesn't reinforce their problems. 

Especially in this modern day, where social media and the internet have given a lot of women false ideas that they have so many options that they don't have.

Just because men are in your DM, saying hey, you're cute" or sending you flattering messages doesn't mean that you have a lot of options. cause they're not trying to wife you, they are just trying to sleep with you. And the reality is, you don't want those types of men anyway. So many ladies confuse these with real relationship options, and the two are not the same. 

Most women confuse sexual attraction with relationship attraction, and the two are not the same. That's why it is very difficult for women to do self-criticism because they don't get honest feedback. Reality never tells them they're losers, even if they are. It is very difficult for them to acknowledge their fault and admit it, no sense of accountability or whatever.

In conclusion, a woman doesn’t deserve any man; she has to earn that man, too. I don’t know why you feel entitled to any good man. And if it comes easily, is it really worth it?

Men have to earn their status; women have to earn their men. And how can you do that? Be feminine, don’t be annoying, and most importantly, don’t come with a lot of past. Baggage’s cause no man want to deal with that. As much as you care about a man’s future, he also cares about your past. Do not rate yourself more than what value you can offer; don’t be delusional. Do not over-inflate your self-worth.